Just because you’re pregnant, it doesn’t mean everything else has to be put on pause—and that includes your sex life. The truth is that your libido will enhance in the coming months, as those all-important hormones (hello oestrogen and progesterone!) surge and eventually wane. Sex provides a range of physical and emotional benefits to you (think: stress relief and improved sleep!) you can also read our other topic Can using a sex toy really improve your health? But are there restrictions—and can you use a vibrator while pregnant? The answer is yes. Vibrators and other sex toys are usually safe to use during pregnancy.
Is It Safe to Use a Vibrator While Pregnant?
First and crucial: In most cases, it’s perfectly fine, but there can be a few exceptions.
Dr. Sherry health expert says
“Assuming a pregnant person has a healthy and low-risk pregnancy, it’s safe to use a vibrator and other sex toys during any trimester of pregnancy,”
However, if your doctor has prescribed pelvic rest, you’ll need to refrain from any sexual activity.
Benefits of Masturbation During Pregnancy
Alejandra Lucatero, LCSW, a Honolulu-based social worker specialising in sexual health. said ‘’ Whether you’re pregnant or not, masturbation has many benefits.
Masturbation during pregnancy can offer several benefits, both physically and emotionally. Here are some of the key advantages:
1. Stress Relief
Masturbation releases endorphins, the body’s natural “feel-good” hormones, which can help reduce stress and anxiety. Pregnancy can be an emotional rollercoaster, and this is also natural stress reliever can provide a much-needed break from worries.
2. Improved Sleep
Pregnancy often comes with disrupted sleep due to physical discomfort, hormonal changes, or anxiety. The relaxation that follows orgasm may help you fall asleep faster and sleep more deeply.
3. Increased Blood Flow
During pregnancy, your body experiences increased blood flow, particularly in the pelvic region. Masturbation can help stimulate circulation, which may reduce pelvic discomfort and swelling.
4. Pain Relief
The release of endorphins during orgasm can act as a natural pain reliever. This may help ease some common pregnancy discomforts like back pain, headaches, or pelvic pressure.
5. Strengthening Pelvic Floor Muscles
Orgasms cause the pelvic muscles to contract, and over time, this can help strengthen them. Stronger pelvic floor muscles can contribute to a smoother labor and quicker recovery postpartum.
6. Emotional Well-being
Pregnancy can bring about a lot of hormonal fluctuations, sometimes causing mood swings or feelings of being overwhelmed. Masturbation can be a way to reconnect with your body, improve your mood, and foster a sense of emotional well-being.
7. Improved Libido
Pregnancy hormones can affect libido in different ways. For some, self-pleasure can help boost sexual desire or maintain a healthy libido, especially if physical intimacy with a partner is more challenging due to physical or emotional factors.
8. Increased Comfort
As your body changes during pregnancy, masturbation allows you to explore what feels good without any pressure from a partner. It can also be a way to experience intimacy if penetrative sex feels uncomfortable or isn’t recommended.
9. Enhanced Relationship with Your Body
Pregnancy brings many changes to your body, and masturbation can help you stay connected and comfortable with those changes. It can enhance body awareness, making you more in tune with what feels good and what doesn’t.
10. Sexual Satisfaction
If sexual activity with a partner becomes more challenging due to physical changes or discomfort, masturbation offers a way to satisfy sexual desires without involving penetration or partner interaction.
While masturbation during pregnancy can offer these benefits, it’s always a good idea to check with your healthcare provider, especially if you have any pregnancy complications or concerns like preterm labor, bleeding, or other health risks.
Which masturbator and stroker is best for masturbation
We have many masturbators and strokers at Intimo Toys following are our best selling masturbator and stroker.
Mood Naughty 1 Anal Trainer Set Black
Premium silicone butt plug in three graduated sizes. Measuring at 3 4 and 5 inches this set is shaped and sized to help backdoor beginners gently expand the boundaries of their anal experience. The classic tapered tip slides right in and the firm yet flexible material and curved rocker base make these plugs comfortable and safe for extended wear.
Total Length of Small plug: 3.25 in.; Medium: 4 in.; Large: 5 in.
Insertable/Usable Length of Small plug: 3 in.; Medium: 3.75 in.; Large: 4.75 in.
Width/Diameter of Small plug: 0.75 in.; Medium: 1 in.; Large: 1.25 in.
Circumference of Small plug: 3 in.; Medium: 3.5 in.; Large: 4.25 in.
Nasstoys Dynamo Rechargeable Vibrating Masturbator Cylinder Black
The Nasstoys Dynamo Vibrating Masturbator Cup accommodates all penis shapes and sizes with its sleek discreet design. Open at both ends the user may insert their penis using a water-based lubricant and stroke as they would naturally with their own hand. 10 powerful vibrating functions and the textured tunnel deliver powerful sensations. This stroker can also be a fantastic oral sex aid to be used with a partner! Place over the penis of a partner using your favorite flavored water-based lubricant then stroke up and down while only placing as much or as little into one?s mouth as desired to create a deep-throat like sensation without the sore jaw! Please clean before and after each use with toy cleaner and allow to dry before replacing the caps onto each end. To power on press and hold the power button until vibration begins then press again to begin cycling through the vibration patterns. Press and hold to power off. To charge please align the magnetic connectors on the charger to the contact points on the stroker’s outer shell then connect the USB end into a power source.
- 10 Dynamic functions
- RoHS compliant
- Phthalates free
- Waterproof
- Materials: TPE & ABS
- Size: Length ? 4.5″ Width ? 3.5″
- Rechargeable: Charging Time ? 2 hours Working Time ? 1 hour Voltage ? 5V
What To Look For in Pregnancy-Safe Sex Toys
When choosing sex toys during pregnancy, it’s important to prioritize safety, hygiene, and comfort. Here’s what to look for in pregnancy-safe sex toys:
1. Non-Porous Materials
Opt for sex toys made from non-porous materials such as:
- Silicone
- Stainless steel
- Glass (specifically, medical-grade or borosilicate glass)
These materials are easier to clean, don’t trap bacteria, and are generally safer for use, reducing the risk of infection.
2. Body-Safe Materials
Ensure that the toys are made from body-safe, hypoallergenic materials. Look for toys labeled as:
- Phthalate-free
- Latex-free
- Non-toxic
Avoid toys made from materials like jelly rubber or PVC, which may contain harmful chemicals that can irritate sensitive tissues.
3. Easy to Clean
Choose toys that are easy to clean with soap and water, or that are dishwasher-safe (if the manufacturer suggests this). Clean toys before and after every use to prevent infections. Many non-porous toys are easier to sanitize, which is particularly important during pregnancy.
4. No Sharp Edges or Damage
Inspect toys for any cracks, chips, or scratches where bacteria could accumulate. If you notice any damage, it’s best to replace the toy. Also, avoid toys with sharp edges or parts that could cause discomfort or injury.
5. Comfortable Size
As your body changes during pregnancy, comfort becomes a priority. If you’re choosing a penetrative toy, pick one that feels comfortable and suits your current needs. You might prefer smaller, softer, or more flexible toys as pregnancy progresses.
6. Adjustable Settings
Toys with adjustable intensity levels (such as vibrators) can be helpful, allowing you to control the stimulation and adjust based on what feels good. Pregnancy hormones can increase sensitivity, so having the option to change intensity is important.
7. External Stimulation Options
If penetration becomes uncomfortable or isn’t recommended by your doctor, look for toys designed for external stimulation, such as:
- Clitoral vibrators
- Massagers
- Bullet vibrators
These toys provide pleasurable stimulation without needing internal use, making them a good option during pregnancy.
8. Waterproof
Waterproof toys can be convenient for use in the bath or shower, where you might feel more comfortable. They’re also easier to clean thoroughly.
9. Quiet Operation
A toy with a quieter motor can be less distracting, helping you focus on relaxation and pleasure. This can be especially useful if you’re trying to create a calming, peaceful environment during pregnancy.
10. Rechargeable
Opt for rechargeable toys over battery-operated ones. They’re more reliable and save you from having to constantly change batteries, which can be a hassle. Rechargeable toys also tend to last longer.
11. Ergonomic Design
Pregnancy can cause aches and changes in flexibility, so look for toys that are designed to be ergonomic and easy to handle. Toys with handles or flexible necks can make it easier to position them comfortably.
12. Check for Certifications
If possible, check if the toy has medical-grade certifications or is from a reputable brand known for making body-safe products. Certifications like “FDA-approved” or “CE-marked” indicate that the toy meets certain safety standards.
13. Avoid Suction Toys for Internal Use
While external suction toys (for clitoral stimulation) are fine, avoid any internal suction or vacuum-based toys during pregnancy, as they could pose risks.
By focusing on body-safe, easy-to-clean materials, comfort, and personal preferences, you can find a pregnancy-safe sex toy that enhances pleasure without compromising safety.
Which sex toys we should use during pregnancy
Here are a list of sex toys which give more pleasure when we use during pregnancy
Magic Wand Plus HV-265 Massager
The authentic variable-speed version of the Original Magic Wand® the massager that has been trusted for over 50 years!
If we can get real for a minute the Magic Wand® Plus is a bit of an overachiever. It doesn’t just borrow features like variable speeds and plug-in power – it owns them. Soft silicone head? Check. And those famous deep rumbly vibrations? Oh yeah the Plus delivers there too.
Ready to make history again the Magic Wand® Plus is a corded massager that delivers the same magical power users around the world have enjoyed for more than fifty years. And just like the Original it delivers the kind of power you can only get from a plug-in massager.
The intuitive controls make it easy to select one of four intensities – ranging all the way up to 6300 RPM! And when it’s time to put the Magic Wand® Plus away the cord detaches for easy storage.
- Authentic variable-speed version of the famous Magic Wand®
- A/C Corded Power (not rechargeable)
- Four power levels going up to 6300 RPM!
- Soft silicone head & flexible neck
- Famous deep rumbly vibrations
- Powerful motor & intuitive controls
- 1-year warranty
Tech Specs:
- Power source: 100 – 240V electrical outlet
- High capacity motor
- Four speeds: approx. 2700 / 3800 / 5400 / 6300 RPM
- Weight: 1.3 lbs.
- Dimensions: approx. 13″ (length) 2.4″ (head diameter)
- Cord length: 6 foot
- Plug type: US polarized
- ETL listed (proof of product compliance with North American safety standards)
- Registered with the FDA as a medical device
LELO SONA Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator Pink
Meet the sonic massager that stimulates 75% more of your clitoris for a feeling that will change your life one orgasm at a time. SONA? uses sonic waves and pulses to stimulate the entire clitoris?above beyond and underneath. Because it never needs to make direct contact with the clitoris you can use it ANYWHERE.
Specifications:
- Materials: ABS Plastic/Silicone
- Size: 115 x 50 x 56 mm
- Weight: 116 g
- Battery: Li-Ion 530 mA 3.7 V
- Charging: 2 hrs at 5.0 V 400 mA
- User Time: Up to 1 hr
- Standby: Up to 90 days
- Frequency: 120 Hz
- Max. Noise Level: 50 dB
- Interface: 3 button interface 8 modes
Box Contains:
- SONA?
- USB Charging Cord
- Satin Storage Pouch
- Warranty Registration Card
- Detailed Instruction Manual
Ossia is a revolutionary remote-controlled wearable bullet vibrator. Its super-slim base was designed for maximum comfort making it enjoyable to wear even for extended periods.
A super-powerful motor commands the 10 stimulating vibration modes and our signature Boost Mode skyrockets you to the most powerful setting no matter which mode you’re on.
The uniquely designed base is ergonomic super flexible and supremely slim putting your comfort first. To top things off both the toy and the wireless remote are waterproof.
Ossia is perfect for those who want to explore their sexuality discreetly or completely the opposite. You can wear it throughout the day without anyone knowing or go on a sensory adventure by giving your partner control and adding an element of surprise.
Key features:
- Versatile: Ossia’s bullet-shaped design and flared base allows it to be used in a variety of ways both external and internal. This makes it a perfect vibe for any experience level beginners and seasoned pros alike.
- Super-slim base: The base of the bullet is the slimmest ever on a wearable device offering incomparable comfort no matter the wearer.
- Boost Mode: Take your solo sessions or partnered play to the next level with our proprietary Boost Mode function. This signature feature provides a sudden burst of extra power to reach orgasmic bliss faster and more intensely than ever before.
- Waterproof design: Make a splash with Ossia. This vibe is 100% waterproof so you can switch up your routine with a heated session in the shower or bath.
- Wireless Remote: The wireless remote allows for hands-free solo play or extra fun partner play. Funn Fact: Our wireless remote is just as waterproof as the toy itself so don’t let the bedroom door limit your exploration. Grab Ossia (and your partner if you want) and take the fun with you anywhere you go even to the wettest of tropical vacations.
- USB rechargeable: With Ossia you’ll never have to worry about running out of batteries at the wrong time. Thanks to our new and improved magnetic USB-rechargeable design you can get there without losing power.
- Standby Mode aka Travel Lock: Bringing your vibe on vacation ? fun. Your vibe turning on in your bag while you’re walking through security ? not so fun. Need we say more?
- Body-safe materials: At Femme Funn we prioritize our customers’ pleasure and safety and that’s why all of our toys are made with the highest-quality body-safe materials. You don’t need to worry about cheap or harmful materials touching your sensitive areas with our products.
Specs:
- Materials: Premium body-safe silicone ABS plastic
- Length: 3.9 inches
- Width: 3 inches
- Color options: Dark Green or pink
- Battery: Li-ion
- Charging voltage: 5V
- Run time: Up to 80 minutes at its highest setting (depending on usage)
- Charge time: Approximately two hours
Lovense Vulse?Thrusting and Vibrating Egg
App-controlled hands-free thrusting egg vibrator
Elevate orgasm up to next levels with thrusts and vibes. Vulse enable to free your hands via its powerful motor. Vulse offers a unique experience by combining rapid thrusting motions with powerful vibrations delivering precise G-spot stimulation that leads to intense climaxes. With the ability to reach speeds of up to 120 strokes per minute and a 10mm thrusting length.
Powerful Stimulations
Combination of fast thrusting movements and intense vibration deliver pinpoint G-spot stimulations.
Easy Insertion
Sleek tip makes it slide in smoothly anytime the mood takes you.
Flexibility to Unlock Ultimate Climax
App-controlled allow Vulse to be managed by sound music or motion freeing up user’s hands to cook clean play or also engage in whatever activities.
Endless App Opportunities
- Long Distance: Maintain intimacy with your loved one. Sync your toys together or have long-distance sex with a video or voice call.
- Remote Control: Control any Lovense toy from near or far wherever you are.
- Group Control: Take group chat to a whole new level with Lovense toys.
- Patterns: Custom vibrations to suit body’s needs. Create your own program your toy or search our library of more than 100000+ unique vibes!
Vulse Features
- Close-Range Control
- Long-Distance Control
- Unlimited Vibration Patterns
- Set Vibration Levels
- Sound Activated
- Sync to Music
Product Specifications:
- Materials: Body-Safe Silicone
- Weight: 2.9 oz. (82 g)
- Charging: 57-61 Minutes
- Use Time: up to 65 mins at the lowest level
up to 58 mins at the highest level - Standby: up to 120 Hours
- Waterproof: IPX7 Waterproof
Kit of 3 silicone butt plugs with violet crystals: small medium and large. My Heart Will Go On. @vday2020-19
Final Thoughts
Pregnancy can bring about numerous physical and emotional changes, but it doesn’t mean you have to put your pleasure on hold. Masturbation and the use of sex toys, when done safely, can be a healthy and enjoyable way to explore intimacy, relieve stress, and reconnect with your body during this unique time. By choosing pregnancy-safe sex toys made from non-porous, body-safe materials and focusing on hygiene and comfort, you can continue to enjoy sexual wellness without compromising safety. As always, consult with your healthcare provider if you have any specific concerns about your pregnancy or sexual activity.