HOW TO GIFT A SEX TOY: A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE

Thinking about buying someone a sex toy? These can be some of the most exciting and rewarding presents to give or receive. Read on for our step-by-step guide to choosing the perfect adult-themed gift!

Is a Sex Toy a Good Gift?

Buying sex toys is a delicate art. Before investing in a new pleasure product, it’s wise to gauge whether your gift recipient is open to receiving a sex toy. An open conversation can be a good way to understand their interests and any concerns they may have. Since my friends, family, and partners know how passionate I am about the sex toy industry, they’re rarely surprised when I gift a pleasure item. Use the checklist below to see if a sex toy could be the right gift for your loved one. And if you’re still unsure, don’t hesitate to share that you’re considering an adult-oriented gift and see how they feel about it.

• They expressed interest in using a vibrators
• They’ve shared a personal concern about their sex life, looking for your feedback or advice.
• They talk openly with you about their intimate experiences.
• They’ve bought a sex toy for you or shopped for one together with you.

How Much Should I Spend on a Sex Toy?

You’ve decided to buy a sex toy! Vibrators, lubricants, and restraints can make incredibly fun gifts for both the giver and the receiver. Disposable products or those made from less durable materials are perfect for anyone trying out a new shape or style of toy for the first time. However, when I’m choosing a sex toy as a gift, I want something that’s built to last. I look for toys that allow my loved ones to explore new sensations freely, without having to worry about a limited lifespan. Sexual exploration should be on their own terms, whether that’s five days or five months after receiving the toy. By choosing body-safe gifts, I’m showing my loved ones that their pleasure, safety, and comfort are top priorities. Materials like glass, steel, and silicone are ideal for longevity and safety, with options available at a wide range of prices—from $20 to $300.

What Type of Sex Toy Should I Buy?

Sex toys come in a variety of shapes and textures, each designed to provide a unique experience. When choosing a sex toy, it’s helpful to consider how its design may enhance or simplify the user’s experience. As an experienced toy buyer, I know how overwhelming it can be to comb through a 30-page product manual! Thankfully, using a sex toy doesn’t have to be complicated. For beginners, look for toys with simple, intuitive button interfaces. Most vibrators have around three buttons—usually to increase or decrease intensity or switch to a pattern mode. Toys with four or more buttons (some even have up to seven) tend to be better suited for more experienced users.

I also pay close attention to texture and size. Whenever possible, hold the product in your hands to see how it feels. Is it soft, textured, or smooth? Toys that fit easily in the palm or extend naturally from your fingertips are often more comfortable for beginners. Lastly, consider the appearance of the toy. Realistic-looking toys can sometimes be a bit much unless it’s a style that’s been discussed. Instead, opt for subtle designs that could pass as a facial massager, piece of art, or even a household gadget.

Double Duty Sex Toys: The Gift That Keeps Giving

Next, it’s important to consider the features and functions of the vibrator you’re choosing. Personally, I prefer to buy waterproof products that offer a variety of settings. This ensures that no matter what type of stimulation my partner enjoys, they’ll be able to find something that suits them. Don’t overlook toys with unique shapes, as they can often be used in more versatile ways. For example, a dual-action vibrator could also serve as an anal toy, or a clitoral vibrator might double as a body massager. Keeping your options flexible allows your partner to get creative with their experiences. This also presents a chance to think about any special features that could be particularly beneficial. For instance, I love gifting app-enabled sex toys to friends in long-distance relationships. What features would your special someone appreciate?

Sex Toy Essentials for the Perfect Gift Bundle

When purchasing a sex toy as a gift, don’t forget the essentials! Lubricant and toy cleaner are key to enhancing the experience and extending the lifespan of the toy. Help your friends and loved ones succeed by providing them with the right tools to care for their toys. This will protect them from bacteria buildup and prevent any potential damage to the toy.

We hope this guide has given you more confidence in choosing a sex toy gift. If you’re still unsure or feeling overwhelmed, visit one of our 39 U.S. locations. Our store associates are passionate about helping others experience the gift of pleasure! Stop by today to speak with an in-store expert or visit our online store to shop solo.

The Best Sex Toys for Holiday

We-Vibe Golden Moments 2 Black

The most intuitive couple’s vibrator We-Vibe Chorus and Womanizer Premium 2 which combines unique clitoral stimulator in one edition box. Created to celebrate the union of the two brands.

PREMIUM 2 is the most luxurious Pleasure Air toy ever made. Womanizer’s flagship has been redesigned user feedback from over 1600 users to offer the most fulfilling experience. The high qualit y super soft silicone skin creates a delicate silky feel and 14 intensity levels ensures smooth transition and control. Autopilot allows users to let go.

Pleasure Air Technology was designed to awaken all 8000+ clitoral nerve endings. The focused changes in air pressure create the perfect balance of sucking and massaging sensations to deliver an extraordinary new orgasm. PREMIUM 2 offers 14 levels that range in in sensation from soft ripples to intense waves of pure pleasure without any direct contact to the clitoris or overstimulation.

Autopilot intuitively guides the orgasmic journey and surprises with random changes in intensity without having to adjust the settings manually. With no way to predict what comes next Autopilot only leaves the thrill of anticipation and ecstasy.

Smart Silence ensures that Pleasure Air will only turn on when it senses skin contact. Until then PREMIUM 2 remains silent in standby mode for a discreet experience and to conserve battery life.

Features

• Pleasure Air Technology
• Smart Silence
• Autopilot mode
• 14 intensity levels
• Waterproof (IPX7)
• Body Fit
• Super soft silicone skin
• Body-safe silicone head
• 3 LEDs with charging level and mode indication
• USB cable with magnetic charging pins
• 2 stimulation heads in different sizes
• High quality cotton storage bag
• Charge time: 2 hours
• Run time: Up to 4 hours
• Product dimensions: 6.1 x 2 x 1.4 in. (155 x 50 x 35 mm)
• Product weight: 5 oz. (141.4g)
• Warranty: 5 years

Chorus Couples Vibrator – We-Vibe’s flagship product Chorus is a remote and app controlled silicone vibrator for couples “worn” with the slender arm inserted comfortably inside the vagina to simultaneously enhance sensations for both partners.

Chorus’ secret is in its smart simplicity: it’s packed with all of We-Vibe’s industry-leading knowledge and technology like the intuitive Squeeze remote Touch-sense modes and AnkorLink to maximize pleasure with minimal effort. The iconic We-Vibe C-shape features a double hinged design for adjustable comfort and offers incredible stimulation for the G-spot clitoris and penis all at the same time during penetrative sex.

Chorus’ shape is customizable. Make small adjustments to the position of either the clitoral or G-spot stimulator to find the fit that’s right for you.

Try Squeeze control with the new Squeeze remote. It was designed with the most natural human response in mind: the tighter you squeeze the stronger the vibration gets. Release your grip and the vibration weakens. This technology lets you change things up in the heat of the moment. Explore seamless pleasure together. You can still change vibration patterns and base vibration intensity while in Squeeze control ? just use the Squeeze remote as you would any other We-Vibe remote.

Using touch-sensitive receptors located underneath the We-Vibe logo Touch-sense lets you control Chorus’ vibrations with your movements. When you touch or move against the sensor the vibration changes. Choose your own adventure with three Touch-sense modes. Unlock Touch-sense with We-Connect.

Chorus is the first We-Vibe powered with AnkorLink technology; it creates the most stable connection between Chorus and the We-Connect app. The Squeeze remote is the anchor between Chorus and We-Connect. You can’t pair Chorus to We-Connect without the Squeeze remote so make sure you keep it closeby while using the app.

Features

• Adjustable fit
• Dual stimulation
• Squeeze remote
• Smartphone app
• Waterproof (IPX7)
• Touch-sense
• AnkorLink
• Whisper quiet
• Ergonomic shape
• USB-rechargeable
• Magnetic charging
• Body-safe silicone
• Up to 90 minutes of play
• Low power alert
• 10+ modes
• Product dimensions:
  • Vibrator: 1.7 x 3.1 x 1.3 in. (4.4 x 7.8 x 3.3 cm)
  • Remote: 1.5 x 3.8 x 1.3 in. (3.7 x 9.6 x 3.2 cm)
  • Charging base: 3.6 x 2.2 x 4.1 in. (9.1 x 5.7 x 10.4 cm)
• Product weight:
  • Vibrator: 2.4 oz. (69g)
  • Remote: 1.9 oz. (55g)
  • Charging base: 3.8 oz. (108g)
• Warranty: 2 years

b-Vibe 7-Piece Anal Training & Education Set Teal

Explore the joys of anal play with the new b-Vibe Anal Training Kit & Education Set. Going from zero to penetration is a big no-no. That’s where b-Vibe’s anal training kit comes in ? Anal training means taking the time care and vital steps to prepare your body for anal sex. Includes: 1. Small Silicone Butt Plug ?

Designed to look and feel like a finger the smallest plug in this anal training kit is slim enough for first-time anal play. 2. Medium Vibrating Butt Plug ? Once you start feeling comfortable with how the small butt plug feels you might want to add another sensation to the mix: vibration. 3. Large Weighted Butt Plug ? The two weighted balls (180g) inside this non-vibrating plug will help you to create a sensual feeling of fullness. 4. Lubricant Applicator ? This little gadget is one of those “best things you’ve never heard of” or used for that matter. It does exactly what it sounds like by lubricating those hard to reach places. 5. Anal Enema ?

No anal training kit would be complete without an enema. We consider it as the perfect go-to for a ‘deep’ clean before anal play. 6. Zipper Travel Bag ? Because why wouldn’t you take your anal training kit & education set on holiday? 7. Complete Guide to Anal Play ? We’ve saved the best for last. Every purchase includes a 50+ page handbook of the most comprehensive how-to guides on anal play written by certified sex educators.

Liberator Ramp Positioning Aid Purple

Pitch Perfect Sex Every Time When it comes to having pitch-perfect sex the Ramp wins hands-down. The world’s best sex pillow gives you access to all of your favorite sexual positions. Whether you enjoy missionary doggy cowgirl sixty-nine and beyond the Liberator Ramp gives you endless creative options to explore. There are plenty of reasons why you will want this fantastic pillow in the bedroom.

First it delivers a 10 to 14-inch rise on any flat surface making from-behind positions feel comfortable and pleasurable. You will feel like a sex pro as the Sex Ramp makes position transitions feel effortless. It is also known for taking the pressure off your joints and back. With all that extra mobility you will have the freedom to explore more with your lover and achieve heights of pleasure like never before. Using this iconic sex pillow on a memory foam mattress will give you and your partner more support and traction to improve thrusting power and deeper penetration. With the patented machine-washable microfiber cover with interlocking threads your Sex Ramp will stay put no matter how active your sexual positions get.

The ultimate sex ramp for enhanced sexual positioning

Helps increase stamina with full-body support

Offers better traction on memory foam mattresses

Pairs perfectly with the Wedge

Relieves joint and lower back pressure

Increases range of motion and mobility

High-density foam inner core

Soft microfiber cover feels lush against bare skin

Removable machine-washable cover

Poly/nylon liner helps resist moisture

Microfiber – 100% nylon Fully supportive polyurethane 34″L x 24″W x 12″H

Final Thoughts:

Choosing a sex toy as a gift can be a deeply personal and rewarding experience, whether you’re surprising a loved one or treating yourself. It’s essential to approach the selection process with care, ensuring that the gift is thoughtful, practical, and matches the recipient’s desires and comfort level. At Intimo Toys, we believe that pleasure and intimacy are for everyone, and we’re here to help you find the perfect adult-themed gift for any occasion. Whether you’re opting for something subtle, versatile, or packed with advanced features, our wide selection of high-quality sex toys ensures that you’ll discover something that fits your unique needs. So, why wait? Explore our collection today and give the gift of pleasure, safety, and excitement—your special someone will thank you for it.